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okay...

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okay...

by sb Wed Aug 04, 2010 1:41 am

I'm reading some of these, and
I regret posting mine. These are
seriously the most depressing
things I've ever seen.

Some of you girls are just
complaining and putting your-
selves down, and I think it's
horrible.

You're not telling us little
facts about yourself; you're
telling us how horrible and
shitty your life is.

I might be sounding like a bit
of a hypocrite here, but I'm
just a little upset that some
of you girls consider yourselves
so unlucky.

It's like this section is one
big fucking contest to see who's
life is suckier.

And it makes me so... Sad. I'm
disappointed. Because we all
have so much to be thankful for.

Now, some of you girls posted
lovely threads about yourselves
that I really enjoyed reading.
Because you were honest, but you
were content.

I know I might have complained
in mine, but I hope I didn't too
much.

I just think we need to take a
step back and look at ourselves.
Thinkabout all that you have and
realize it's not that bad.

Okay?

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Re: okay...

by amber- Wed Aug 04, 2010 1:45 am

I couldn't agree more with this<33
Life is full of curve balls and tough situations but there's also laughter and dreams.
And I think the latter is the most important. =]

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Re: okay...

by sof,or something Wed Aug 04, 2010 1:49 am

I didn't mean for mine to come out in that way, if it did...

I'm just talking about a side of my life that no one really knows about.

I agree with Amber, that's why I normally don't talk about the things in my thread.

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by Lucius Wed Aug 04, 2010 1:50 am

I'm glad you posted this. I know on my own thread, I don't sound grateful at all.
Which I am, it's just sometimes you have to feel bad for yourself you know? It
mends the pain in a strange way. But I have felt this way before when many
people have posted rants about their lives. It's like one minute their like "So
today I'm going shopping with blahblah and then hanging with blahblah and yesterday it was hilarious because I was talking to blahblah and omg it was just amazing!" and then one thing goes bad and their like screw this shit Im so sick of my mother fucking life.
Exescuse the profanity. And the misspelling of exescuse.

But yeah, I know I've probably done stuff like this. But when your feeling all lonely and like your life sucks, you just have to look ath the good things you have. Because even though my parents are in more than fifty thousand in debt and we haven't taken a proper vacation in so long and I don't have a lot of friends at school, I have a roof, a bed, food, money for new school clothes, god, a loving family, a computer, and a website full of girls to cheer me up. Oh and kathys body.

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Re: okay...

by chronic Wed Aug 04, 2010 1:52 am

agreed 100%

cali sweetheart.

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by cali sweetheart. Wed Aug 04, 2010 1:56 am

yes thank you sb ! i tried to totally avoid theat when i wrote mine !

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by claire Wed Aug 04, 2010 12:56 pm

shatteredxlolli wrote:I couldn't agree more with this<33
Life is full of curve balls and tough situations but there's also laughter and dreams.
And I think the latter is the most important. =]

<33

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by Zoe Wed Aug 04, 2010 1:18 pm

Yeah, you're right, SB.
Some of us just... enjoy the pity, I guess.
It's funny how so many people do.
We DO all have lots to be grateful for.
A lot of us have a tendency of focusing solely on the negative.
But I try to post on everyone's ifrkm thread, anyway. :]

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by BetsyisMiley(; Wed Aug 04, 2010 2:26 pm

i agree. but its also good to tell people about your problems and what your dealing with. It makes your problems real, which makes them eaiser to get over !

but i agree.. i love looking at the glass half full instead of half empty

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by k.dAisy Wed Aug 04, 2010 2:47 pm

yess, we all do have lots of things to be grateful for.
but sometimes we DO crash and burn and forget about the good things.
it's just one of those things that everybody does.

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Re: okay...

by Amber Wed Aug 04, 2010 3:01 pm

This is absolutely true. I hope I didnt sound ungrateful in mine and if I did tell me.
I am very grateful about my life and I feel like I have some of the best parents in the world. I'm very lucky with what they do, and that they care for me.
You brought up great points sarahbeth. (:
We all have things we don't like about our lives, I think this was maybe just a way to share it with everybody and become closer.
I know I actually probably shared more with you girls than I share with my own family. But I love you girls. We all understand each other. <33

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by Morgayne Wed Aug 04, 2010 4:09 pm

haha I agree, we're all really blessed
but I know a lot of people on here can't really talk about these sort of things with anyone in their real life
so they posted it all on here
and I don't think they meant to sound ungrateful or that they want pity
but you're totally right, we all have so much to be grateful for

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Re: okay...

by Kathy Wed Aug 04, 2010 4:13 pm

morgayne wrote:haha I agree, we're all really blessed
but I know a lot of people on here can't really talk about these sort of things with anyone in their real life
so they posted it all on here
and I don't think they meant to sound ungrateful or that they want pity
but you're totally right, we all have so much to be grateful for

yes what morgs said
i may sound like an ungreatful downer, but like, i'm saying things i can't say to anyone else
and getting them out here, which makes me in the end feel better
i know i shouldn't be,
i should dwell on those great things in my life, and not the shitty things
but then again, what would be the point of this if we all went "if you really knew me, you'd know that my life totally is amazing."

I agree, though, we should all be greatful for what we have.

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Re: okay...

by BetsyisMiley(; Wed Aug 04, 2010 4:33 pm

i agrree with you morgs (:

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Re: okay...

by LaurenElizabeth Wed Aug 04, 2010 5:38 pm

kathy wrote:

morgayne wrote:haha I agree, we're all really blessed
but I know a lot of people on here can't really talk about these sort of things with anyone in their real life
so they posted it all on here
and I don't think they meant to sound ungrateful or that they want pity
but you're totally right, we all have so much to be grateful for

yes what morgs said
i may sound like an ungreatful downer, but like, i'm saying things i can't say to anyone else
and getting them out here, which makes me in the end feel better
i know i shouldn't be,
i should dwell on those great things in my life, and not the shitty things
but then again, what would be the point of this if we all went "if you really knew me, you'd know that my life totally is amazing."

I agree, though, we should all be greatful for what we have.

i agree with this:)

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Re: okay...

by ibelieveinfairies Wed Aug 04, 2010 5:53 pm

kathy wrote:

morgayne wrote:haha I agree, we're all really blessed
but I know a lot of people on here can't really talk about these sort of things with anyone in their real life
so they posted it all on here
and I don't think they meant to sound ungrateful or that they want pity
but you're totally right, we all have so much to be grateful for

yes what morgs said
i may sound like an ungreatful downer, but like, i'm saying things i can't say to anyone else
and getting them out here, which makes me in the end feel better
i know i shouldn't be,
i should dwell on those great things in my life, and not the shitty things
but then again, what would be the point of this if we all went "if you really knew me, you'd know that my life totally is amazing."

I agree, though, we should all be greatful for what we have.

I agree with these two girls right here. :]
Like with what happened to me in my life, I can't just admit it to anyone in my real world.
Here, I feel as if others understand where I'm coming from and I know that the girls here don't
judge. I didn't mean for my thread to reflect like "death" or make it look so depressing, but I did add what I am grateful and happy for. But for some people, it can be hard...

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Re: okay...

by addieee, Wed Aug 04, 2010 7:37 pm

this kinda makes me feel guilty for wantting to talk about problems that i cant in rl... :\

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Re: okay...

by BetsyisMiley(; Wed Aug 04, 2010 7:58 pm

i dont think you should Addie.. thats not what SB is trying to say (or i hope she isnt)

i think its more like you can share your stuff with us, and feel like you have someone here but also remember that you have great qualities
and that you have a privalaged life, even just by living in america. (ok she wasn't saying that but you should be greatful that we live in a free
country (: )

dont feel guilty, but maybe every bad thing you say about yourself or your life, say 2 good things. Not only because you have a better life then
some others but also so you keep a high self-esteem.

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Re: okay...

by amber- Thu Aug 05, 2010 1:39 pm

<3mileycyrus wrote:i dont think you should Addie.. thats not what SB is trying to say (or i hope she isnt)

i think its more like you can share your stuff with us, and feel like you have someone here but also remember that you have great qualities
and that you have a privalaged life, even just by living in america. (ok she wasn't saying that but you should be greatful that we live in a free
country (: )

dont feel guilty, but maybe every bad thing you say about yourself or your life, say 2 good things. Not only because you have a better life then
some others but also so you keep a high self-esteem.

This is pretty much perfect. =]

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Re: okay...

by allie Thu Aug 05, 2010 2:34 pm

I agree, it is rather depressing and I'm sure mine is like this too.
But I feel like when you do something like this, it's to tell people not just these 'facts' about yourself but it's to tell people about how you see yourself

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